Quency carries the remembering, so you can do the showing up

What Quency is Quency is the app that helps you show up for the people you love. It keeps the people, the dates, and the details that matter in one place, reminds you with enough lead time to act, and mails a real card when you want to send one. Quency was founded by a Humanist Chaplain and runs on iPhone and Android.

Loved ones You choose those closest to you. Share your contacts or add people by hand, then tap the heart. Gold means they are now a loved one. Quency is built for the small list, the people you truly know and love, and it's free for up to five loved ones.

Profiles Every loved one gets a profile: who they are to you, what you love about them, the things worth remembering, the dates that matter, and their star sign. It's the page you'd want in front of you before you call.

Coming Up A rolling calendar of what's ahead, in 30-day, 90-day, or year views, so a date is something you plan for rather than something that arrives.

Reminders. Quency sends one notification a day at most, and only on a day when something is coming. That notification lists everyone whose date is 30, 14, or 7 days away, and everyone whose day it is. Ten birthdays in a month is still one reminder a morning.

Cards Real paper, real envelope, real stamp. You pick the card and write the message; Quency prints it and mails it by the date you set. Cards are bought separately from the subscription and mail to addresses in the United States.

The Astro Circle Each loved one's star sign, and a read on how they might like to be shown up for. Your whole circle, grouped by sign. Believe in it or don't; it does one thing reliably, which is get you thinking about how this person is different from you.

freQ freQ is the assistant inside Quency, COMING NEXT. It will take what you know about your person and turn it into the plan, the words, and the right read. A preview waits in the freQ tab.

What it costs Free for up to five loved ones. Subscribe to expand your circle of loved ones and access exclusive features: $2.99 a month or $19.99 a year. No ads, on either tier.

Your information Quency never sells your data, never messages anyone for you, and does not train AI on what you write. Contacts are used to find birthdays; addresses are used to mail cards; what you write about the people you love is used so you can show up better, and for nothing else.